Instructor Tom: Listening to the Monkey’s Shriek

Creator and poet Diane Ackerman writes:

“(I)t in all probability does not matter if we attempt too laborious, are awkward typically, look after each other too deeply, are excessively interested by nature, are too open to expertise, and luxuriate in nonstop expense of the senses in an effort to know life intimately and lovingly.”

We reside in a time of plague, and I do not imply Covid. The virus is known as productiveness and the illness it causes is an all-consuming sense of guilt or anxiousness at any time when we take various moments to remind ourselves that we’re alive. Our busy, buzzing minds insist upon reminding us of the duties undone and challenges forward, making us perpetually really feel as if we’re simply barely maintaining. It even visits us in our desires, if we’re ever in a position to go there amidst the tossing and turning. 

Some 2500 years in the past, Buddha described our minds as being stuffed with drunken monkeys and the loudest of all is concern, so it is clear that this plague is not new. And it is an actual pity as a result of we have labored so laborious over the centuries to guard ourselves from concern. It is unlikely, for example, that anybody studying this will likely be eaten by a wild animal. You are in all probability not going to die in a struggle or from hunger. Current day challenges however, our skill to guard ourselves by way of drugs has by no means been higher. But nonetheless the monkeys shriek at us as if it is all a matter of life and demise when actually it is simply in regards to the relentless claims that productiveness makes on our each waking second. The monkey concern that we’d fall behind.

Behind what? It is a query we ask about our youngsters and their schooling. I hear the voices of “specialists,” echoing by way of our policymakers, warning us that the children have to work tougher as a result of they’re “falling behind.” Too many kids, even younger ones, are listening to the monkey’s shriek. By no means earlier than have so many kids, even younger ones, skilled the degrees of despair and anxiousness we’re seeing as we speak. To have specialists deliberately stoke the fear-of-falling-behind in dad and mom in order that they might, in flip, infect their kids is outrageous.

Regardless of how laborious we scramble to maintain up, we are going to at all times go away issues undone and that guilt and anxiousness will, ultimately, have amounted to a narrowing of what it means to be alive. As we sit down for Thanksgiving, I am grateful for the younger kids in my life. They’re our greatest academics. They aren’t but contaminated with the virus of productiveness. Gloriously, they struggle too laborious, are awkward, and vulnerable to caring too deeply. They’re pushed by their extreme curiosity and that opens them to the totality of expertise that comes from having fun with a nonstop expense of the senses in the one human challenge that issues: to know life intimately and lovingly.

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