They’re a Head Taller Than Themselves

I used to be at Archie McPhee’s in Seattle, the perfect retailer on the earth, after I all of the sudden discovered an impossibly tiny boy at my knees. He mentioned, eyes broad, “You are right here.”

It took me a second, however I lastly acknowledged him as one among my two-year outdated college students. Seeing him out of context had thrown me a bit. Right here, out on the earth, he caught me as a lot youthful than he did in school, not simply smaller, however much less mature, much less assured. At college, he was a pacesetter amongst his friends, at all times the primary to strive new issues, daring, even a bit cocky, however right here was, nicely, wee in each manner.

This has occurred to me earlier than — in parks, eating places, and on the road — working into kids who appear bodily, intellectually, socially, and emotionally youthful than they do in school. 

Psychologist Lev Vygotsky wrote, “In play a toddler at all times behaves past their common age, above their each day conduct; in play it’s as if they have been a head taller than themself.”

That is what occurs once we get to know kids in an atmosphere the place they’ve permission to play. 

Once we play, we’re our emergent selves. Once we play we’re in a state of changing into, of studying, of leaving outdated concepts behind, of toppling the established order. Once we play, we’re making manner for the brand new concepts, for the brand new established order we’re discovering, exploring, and creating via our self-selected course of examine.

Mother and father usually comment that their kids are so significantly better “behaved” in school, extra “cooperative,” and extra “mature.” That is as a result of at our faculty, they’re a head taller than themselves. 

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